/u/derno on Can you ask someone to lose weight for your wedding?
As a wedding photographer, nothing looks better in photos than people being comfortable with themselves. When they start trying too hard to “look good” it comes off as disingenuous and looks bad.When...
View Article/u/macimom on Can you ask someone to lose weight for your wedding?
Frankly I would tell her "Im hoping that your offer came form the best of places but its effect was to make me question whether you value me more as a friend or a wedding photo prop. IM happy with my...
View Article/u/littlelegoman on Can you ask someone to lose weight for your wedding?
Weddings are only as stressful as the people planning it make them. No one needs chair covers and aisle runners, fancy lighting, this exact shade of cream colored napkins, and solid gold dessert...
View Article/u/astroanna on Can you ask someone to lose weight for your wedding?
A... A size 10 is fat? In what world? Don't go, spend your time and money doing something actually fun where you won't be judged for something completely stupid.
View Article/u/alt-tuna on Can you ask someone to lose weight for your wedding?
Wedding photographer here. 20+ years at it. Weddings make people entitled and crazy! First for photos it’s WAY more important to have people you truly love rather than “filler” the day is about a...
View Article/u/Atalanta8 on Can you ask someone to lose weight for your wedding?
Did she reply to that?
View Article/u/weasel999 on Can you ask someone to lose weight for your wedding?
It made me stop and think: am I an asshole too? Is that why we have been friends so long? But I was in a period of self reflection and improvement so it had to end.
View Article/u/OverEasyGoing on Can you ask someone to lose weight for your wedding?
That’s the real rub here. Nobody gives a shit what your wedding photos look like. Posted on Instagram once then you’ll show them to your kids in 20 years so have fun explaining why they’re filled with...
View Article/u/moosetopenguin on Can you ask someone to lose weight for your wedding?
It became an episode of "malicious compliance," since the spray tan basically turned her skin orange and then her entire body was orange/red in the wedding photos.
View Article/u/Funandgeeky on Can you ask someone to lose weight for your wedding?
I was about 30lbs heavier for my own wedding, and I looked freaking awesome.You made me smile when you said this.
View Article/u/Raivix on Can you ask someone to lose weight for your wedding?
To be fair, it takes a lot larger change, and usually a direct comparison via photo, to notice changes to yourself over time. It's entirely possible she put on more muscle/bulk than she intended...
View Article/u/cahshew on Can you ask someone to lose weight for your wedding?
Since she's worried about her appearance, maybe she's projecting it on you then. Insecure people do stuff like that. I'm really happy for you for immediately shutting it down!
View Article/u/reapy54 on Can you ask someone to lose weight for your wedding?
Did you tell her you came up with an eating plan for them so they could bulk up and make the pictures more symmetric?
View Article/u/ItsNotYourTurn on Can you ask someone to lose weight for your wedding?
Please don’t reduce her responsibility here by assuming he’s behind it. Whether or not he is, she chose to try and sell you a plan that you have never expressed an interest in. Her gesture is motivated...
View Article/u/itsallgonnafade on Can you ask someone to lose weight for your wedding?
Damm, that was a fantastic response. Good for you.
View Article/u/Bobalery on Can you ask someone to lose weight for your wedding?
I hope her mother wasn’t trying to make her daughter’s possible future regret your responsibility. That would teach her absolutely nothing. I love your response though!
View Article/u/WaluigiIsTheRealHero on Can you ask someone to lose weight for your wedding?
I went to a destination wedding recently at a reasonably-priced Caribbean resort, and it was great - the wedding festivities were short and sweet and only took up a single afternoon/evening, so anyone...
View Article/u/kotoamatsukamix on Can you ask someone to lose weight for your wedding?
What did she say back to this? We need updates!
View Article/u/Bagpuss45 on Can you ask someone to lose weight for your wedding?
Sounds like the best plan to me. Forget her wedding. You and your husband think you are gorgeous and thats what matters.
View Article/u/xuxebiko on Can you ask someone to lose weight for your wedding?
make that two single brothers. One for you, one for me ;)
View Article/u/kellylovesdisney on Can you ask someone to lose weight for your wedding?
and document the fuck out of it in all your social medias :)
View Article/u/DekkarMoonbootz on Can you ask someone to lose weight for your wedding?
Well now I’m vaguely threatened AND horny!
View Article/u/BurchSmith on Can you ask someone to lose weight for your wedding?
I’d like to show him off.
View Article/u/hazytuesday on Can you ask someone to lose weight for your wedding?
Despite being so religious, looks were very important to her. We were art students, which was a very dirty, messy subject, yet she always came to class dressed impeccably, her hair and makeup perfect,...
View Article/u/Northstarmom on Can you ask someone to lose weight for your wedding?
Hell, no about being willing to change your look to please the bride. Someone that superficial wasn’t and isn’t worthy of your friendship. Bridesmaids should be picked by the depths of friendship not...
View Article/u/Cherish_Dipp on Can you ask someone to lose weight for your wedding?
If it was, it was utterly delusional of her and she very much showed her ass to people close to the family. I think the universe presented you an opportunity and you damn well took it
View Article/u/Freyja2179 on Can you ask someone to lose weight for your wedding?
Well and god forbid when their spouses looks start to go.
View Article/u/throwaway7314288 on Can you ask someone to lose weight for your wedding?
I just feel ppl that do this kind of shit won't have a happy marriage. They are too superficial and only care about their "special day".
View Article/u/BufferingJuffy on Can you ask someone to lose weight for your wedding?
My (then future, now ex) SIL (and Matron of Honor) was about 6m pregnant at my wedding. Of her own accord, she got a dress custom made to look like the other bridesmaids dresses, only altered to...
View Article/u/Dez_Champs on Can you ask someone to lose weight for your wedding?
"Good news! We've scheduled you a C-section appointment a couple weeks before the wedding so you could look more symmetrical for the photos!"
View Article/u/huematinee on Can you ask someone to lose weight for your wedding?
Same! Well, my wedding is coming up. But I can't imagine kicking out any of my best friends, and what better way to document where everyone was at in their lives during my wedding!
View Article/u/Tortitudes on Can you ask someone to lose weight for your wedding?
Holy shit. One of my bridesmaids got pregnant during wedding planning and was heavily showing in photos. We just picked a dress that would accommodate her growing belly (since you have to order them...
View Article/u/ShadyG on Can you ask someone to lose weight for your wedding?
Well to be faaaaaaair, the vast majority of startups aren’t novel ideas. They just take existing ideas and do them… well not even “better”, just “also”.
View Article/u/SadQueen19 on Can you ask someone to lose weight for your wedding?
Same. Weddings show you who people really are.
View Article/u/karmachameleon92 on Can you ask someone to lose weight for your wedding?
This, people take "it's a day all about youuu" way too far. So many bridezillas and groomzillas just because they forget basic human kindness. I've reconsidered more than a few friendships over the way...
View Article/u/ariagrayx on Can you ask someone to lose weight for your wedding?
This just made me laugh out loud in a McDonald’s bathroom stall
View Article/u/imauglyduckling on Can you ask someone to lose weight for your wedding?
Damn dude!! That is hilarious. Nice username btw.
View Article/u/1_UpvoteGiver on Can you ask someone to lose weight for your wedding?
She should be to your left and the husband to the right. Douche on both sides is symmetric.
View Article/u/anomalous_cowherd on Can you ask someone to lose weight for your wedding?
Ask them to select a volunteer and tell them. It's only fair.
View Article/u/justmeme1 on Can you ask someone to lose weight for your wedding?
Doesn't have to be all of them. Just one so it's symmetrical.
View Article/u/i_nobes_what_i_nobes on Can you ask someone to lose weight for your wedding?
Giving in to every weight you say
View Article/u/ParameciaAntic on Can you ask someone to lose weight for your wedding?
Now and then I think of all the times she screwed you over.
View Article/u/Observerwwtdd on Can you ask someone to lose weight for your wedding?
Exactly.She's NOT your "friend", she's someone you know.
View Article/u/iamniket on Can you ask someone to lose weight for your wedding?
Her bride friend is literally Ben Stiller from Heavy Weights 😅
View Article/u/ElectronicBluebird on Can you ask someone to lose weight for your wedding?
tell her you forgot you already had scheduled to go to a fat camp the same day as her wedding. order pizza and problem is solved.
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